Souvenir, take a measured moment.

Anywhere one drives on will notice the roadside memorial marker. Markers that mark where those who met an untimely death, tragically. Those on a scooter, a bicycle, a motorcycle or even suicide.

Viaduct Memorial - Port Hope 2026

The survivor’s work to manage their grief. They build these roadside shrines as a tribute to their loved one(s). Some are grand, others understated, but I’ve found even those to be most powerful. Elaborate garden-scapes, glass bricks filled with artificial flowers, roadside shrines, a bicycle – often a ‘Ghost Bike’ – a bike painted all white.

These places require maintenance and revisiting. I know that people visit graveyards, but I believe that in many cases, the roadside marker is visited by the survivor more often.

As I work to photograph these markers, judging the timing for best light or representative weather conditions I occasionally find the marker gone. I have learned lately that it is not legal to place a marker on Ontario roads, yet Municipalities are respectful of the gesture and turn a blind eye. I know of several markers that have endured and must remain a comfort to surviving friends and family. I plan to continue my search for these places, if for no other reason than to help expand the reach of survivor love for their loss.

When you come across a marker, I suggest that you take a moment and reflect on the road ahead. We are only here for a moment and these markers have a rather poignant message. Go well, be safe.

Peter Gabany Photography

Peter started his passion for photography in the early 1970s. A host of mentors championed his move to photography school in Toronto, where he spent his formative years with the who's who of photography—people who still influence his work today.

Influencers: Ansel Adams, Diane Arbus, Paul Caponigro, Imogene Cunningham, Elliot Erwit, Walker Evans, Lee Friedlander, Rob Gooblar, Emmet Gowin, Vivian Maier, Arnorld Newman, Don Snyder, Frederick Somers, Paul Strand, Margaret Burke White, Minor White, Gary Winogrand, and his favourite — Edward Weston.

Today, Peter lives in Canada (near Toronto), takes photographs almost daily in search of new stories, and works on specific projects. He lives with his wife, Suzi (The Tomato Lady), his dog – Timpano and loving cat – Billy Joe

https://www.gabanyphoto.ca
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